Holiday Blues: Dealing with Mental Health During the Holiday

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Holiday Blues: Coping with Mental and Financial Health During the Holidays

For many, the holiday season brings a mix of joy and stress—especially when it comes to money management, emotional wellbeing, and overall mental health. As we wrap up another year filled with financial challenges and personal uncertainties, it's important to focus on ending the season with mental, physical, and financial stability.

If you're feeling overwhelmed or facing financial issues, you're not alone. Whether you’re experiencing credit card debt, grief, isolation, or just the pressure to make everything perfect, help is available. Through financial counseling, debt counseling, and emotional support, you can set a path toward a healthier, more balanced financial life and mindset.

Why the Holidays Can Be Emotionally and Financially Overwhelming

1. Grief and Major Life Changes

The first holiday season after losing a loved one or experiencing a major life shift like divorce can be incredibly difficult. Feelings of grief may intensify when others around you seem to be celebrating. This emotional weight, compounded with financial challenges, can feel unbearable.

2. Health Crises and Financial Stress

When illness strikes—whether your own or that of a family member—finances can become an additional source of worry. Rising medical bills, late fees, and reduced income can drain savings and challenge even the most carefully planned budget.

Learn more about creating a holiday budget.

3. Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)

Winter months bring shorter days and less sunlight, which can affect mental health for those prone to SAD. Combine that with the social expectations and financial pressure of the season, and it becomes a perfect storm for emotional distress.

4. Poor Nutrition and Stress Eating

Comfort food may seem like a cure, but indulging in carb-heavy, sugary treats can worsen mood and energy levels, especially if physical activity is limited during colder months.

5. Holiday Debt Spiral

The temptation to overspend during the holidays is real. Many people rely on credit cards to cover gifts, travel, and entertainment—leading to a painful reality in the new year. If you're drowning in credit card debt, you’re not alone. A growing number of individuals are turning to credit counseling or a debt management plan to regain control.

The words "mental health" spelled in scrabble tiles for the holidays.

Coping with Isolation and Social Loneliness

Many people are still facing loneliness due to physical distance from loved ones. Social isolation—whether from travel restrictions or personal circumstances—can take a toll on both mental and financial health. Human connection is a form of healing, and reaching out—even virtually—can bring much-needed comfort.

Tip: The most meaningful gift might be your time or attention. Reach out to someone who might be alone and remind them they matter.

Identifying Holiday Depression

It's common to feel a little “off” during the holidays, but signs of depression should not be ignored. Mental and financial stress often go hand in hand. People who are financially strained are more likely to experience mental health issues and vice versa.

Signs of Holiday Depression May Include:

  • Sleep disturbances (too little or too much)
  • Appetite changes or weight fluctuations
  • A sense of hopelessness or persistent sadness
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Fatigue or lack of motivation
  • Withdrawal from social activities
  • Anxiety about money or finances

If you or someone you love is experiencing these symptoms, don’t hesitate to ask for help. You don’t have to navigate this season alone.

How to Support Someone Struggling During the Holidays

Support from friends and family can be life-changing. Here are some ways to help someone emotionally and financially this season:

  • Encourage Open Dialogue: Let them share how they feel without judgment.
  • Acknowledge Loss: It’s okay to celebrate and grieve simultaneously.
  • Schedule Remote Gatherings: Whether it’s a movie night or a game online, plan moments of connection.
  • Send a Handwritten Note: A thoughtful card can brighten someone’s day.
  • Recommend Professional Help: Encourage them to speak with a financial counselor or therapist if needed.

Struggling With Credit Card Debt? You’re Not Alone

If debt is weighing you down, it may be time to talk with a certified financial counselor. Credit.org, like other member agencies of the National Foundation for Credit Counseling (NFCC) and similar organizations offer free or low-cost services, including:

  • Debt Counseling: Get a comprehensive look at your financial situation.
  • Personalized Action Plans: Receive guidance specific to your unique situation.
  •  Payment Plans and Budgeting Support: Learn how to create sustainable payment plans and budgets.
  •  Debt Management Plans (DMPs): A structured way to repay debt while possibly reducing late fees and interest rates.
  • Financial Education: Many clients also receive financial education to better understand money management, credit, and savings.

Whether you're facing challenges alone or with your family, financial counseling can provide the resources you need to move forward. Services are often provided by accredited financial counselors who are trained to help military personnel, families, seniors, and anyone facing financial hardship.

For immediate issues, don’t take any chances.

If you have clinical depression or seasonal affective disorder, don’t take any chances with your mental health. Talk to a counselor. Serious mental health issues might require medication, while other kinds of anxiety and depression can be helped by talking to professionals about your feelings. If you or someone you know are in immediate danger, dial 9-8-8. Don’t rely on any website for a diagnosis or treatment.

Get help – mental health resources

There are many services from national organizations and websites that can offer more information and help. Here are some of them:

The Gift of Financial Education

This holiday season, give yourself and your loved ones the gift of a more secure financial future. Small steps—like talking to a financial counselor, revising your budget, or asking about charity care options—can lead to long-term financial stability.

Measure  your financial stability:

  • Are you using credit to fund holiday purchases?
  • Do you have a plan to pay down existing debt?
  • Could a DMP or credit counseling help?

If the answer to any of these is yes, there are professionals ready to help. And many financial counseling services are free or come at a low cost.

You Deserve Support—Financial Counseling can Help

There’s no shame in needing help, especially during the holidays. Reaching out for financial guidance is not a sign of weakness—it's a powerful first step toward reclaiming control over your financial life and your mental well being.

Remember: The holidays are not about perfection. They’re about connection, compassion, and caring—for yourself and others.

Talk to an Accredited Financial Counselor Today

We know this time of year can be difficult, but it’s also an opportunity to reflect, reset, and rebuild. Whether your goal is to tackle credit card debt, improve your financial education, or simply find peace in the season, know that help is available.

Counseling is free—you'll get the tools, support, and confidence you need to move forward. Click here to get started.

Schedule your session. Create your personalized action plan. Start managing your money with purpose.

Please remember: the best is yet to come. Wishing you a season of hope, healing, and renewed financial health.

Jeff Michael
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Jeff Michael is the author of More Than Money, a debtor education guide for pre-bankruptcy debtor education, and Repair Your Credit and Knock Out Your Debt from McGraw-Hill books. He was a contributor to Tips from The Top: Targeted Advice from America’s Top Money Minds. He lives in Overland Park, Kansas.
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