What Heirs Should Know About a Reverse Mortgage in Default

The word “default” in red blocks, symbolizing the risk and urgency heirs may face when a reverse mortgage loan becomes due.

Understanding the Reverse Mortgage in Default

A reverse mortgage in default can be a confusing and stressful situation for heirs. Many people don’t realize that when a homeowner passes away or moves out permanently, the reverse mortgage loan becomes due. If the loan isn’t repaid in time, the lender may initiate foreclosure proceedings. For heirs, this creates urgency and the need for clear information.

A reverse mortgage allows older homeowners to borrow against their home equity, usually without making monthly mortgage payments. Instead, the loan balance grows over time and is repaid when the borrower dies, sells the home, or no longer uses it as a primary residence. But if no action is taken after the last surviving borrower leaves the home, the loan can quickly fall into default.

What Happens When the Borrower Dies?

When a reverse mortgage borrower passes, the loan becomes due and payable. The reverse mortgage lender will typically issue a due and payable notice to the heir, co borrower, or estate representative. This notice starts a countdown: heirs generally have 30 days to let the lender know what they plan to do and up to 6 months to act, though extensions may be available.

Heirs may:

  • Pay off the loan balance,
  • Sell the property to cover the debt,
  • Or allow the lender to foreclose if repayment isn’t possible.

The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau outlines these timelines and heir responsibilities clearly in its official FAQ for heirs.

Are Heirs Responsible for the Reverse Mortgage Debt?

A reverse mortgage is typically a non recourse loan, meaning heirs are not personally responsible for the full loan balance. They only need to repay the lesser of the full loan amount or 95% of the current appraised value of the home. This is true even if the loan amount exceeds the market value of the house.

For example, if the reverse mortgage balance is $300,000 but the home is worth only $250,000, heirs can satisfy the debt by paying $237,500 (95% of the home’s value). This rule helps protect families from taking on more debt than the home is worth.

What If the Reverse Mortgage Is Already in Default?

If the reverse mortgage was already in default before the borrower’s death—for example, due to missed property taxes or homeowners insurance—heirs may receive a notice quickly. In this case, timelines to act may be shorter, and the foreclosure process could already be underway.

According to the FDIC’s study on default risk in HECMs, early defaults are often linked to issues like large initial withdrawals or poor credit history. Heirs may still have options to repay the loan, sell the home, or file a deed in lieu of foreclosure to avoid legal proceedings.

Can the Heirs Keep the Home?

Yes, heirs can keep the home with a reverse mortgage by paying off the reverse mortgage debt. That means repaying the reverse mortgage loan balance using personal funds, life insurance proceeds, or obtaining financing like a traditional mortgage.

Heirs should contact the reverse mortgage company quickly and provide a clear plan. They may need to prove ownership rights, especially if they weren’t listed on the loan or title. Some heirs may be an eligible non borrowing spouse or non related third party, which affects their options.

How Does the Appraised Value Affect Repayment?

The home’s current appraised value is crucial. It determines whether the heir can sell the home to cover the mortgage balance or if the FHA insurance (from the Federal Housing Administration) will cover the shortfall.

If the home’s market value is less than the remaining loan balance, the heir can still sell the home and use the sale proceeds to settle the debt under the 95% rule. If more money is left after the loan is repaid, the heir can keep the remaining equity.

The CFPB’s official rights and responsibilities guide offers detailed guidance on appraisals and heir options.

What If There Is an Estate Plan?

If the borrower’s estate was handled through a trust or will, the estate attorney will likely be the point of contact with the reverse mortgage lender. The attorney can help:

  • Respond to the due and payable notice,
  • Clarify who is legally authorized to sell or refinance the home,
  • And assist with probate if required.

An estate plan won’t cancel the debt, but it may speed up how the home is handled. This can help avoid delays that trigger foreclosure proceedings.

How Do Reverse Mortgage Timelines Work?

After the borrower dies or permanently moves out, the clock starts. Here’s a simplified timeline:

  • 30 days: Heirs receive the payable notice and must respond.
  • 6 months: Time allowed to settle the loan (e.g., by sale or refinance).
  • Extensions: Possible, usually in 3-month increments (max of 12 months total), if heirs are actively working to resolve the debt.

Law firms like Stewart Melvin & Frost detail this process, including the 6-month rule and extension options for heirs.

What If There Is a Surviving Spouse?

A non borrowing spouse or eligible non borrowing spouse may have special protections. If they meet HUD’s criteria, they may stay in the home after the borrower passes, without needing to repay the loan immediately.

HUD made several changes in 2017 after legal challenges over how spouses were treated. Today, age and other factors are used in the loan terms, and spouses may qualify to remain in the home if they:

  • Lived in the home at the time of the borrower’s death,
  • Were legally married to the borrower at the time the loan was taken,
  • And meet other occupancy and title conditions.

You can learn more from HUD’s HECM program page.

Reverse mortgage document with keys and a pocket watch, representing timelines, responsibility, and options heirs must consider after default.

What Happens If the Heirs Take No Action?

If no action is taken within the required timeframe, the lender may:

  • Initiate foreclosure,
  • Proceed with a judicial foreclosure (in states where required),
  • And ultimately hold a foreclosure sale to recover the debt.

This process is governed by state law, and the timing can vary. Inaction could lead to the heirs losing the home without any chance to benefit from the home’s equity.

A helpful overview from Harrison Estate Law outlines the timeline, extensions, and what happens if heirs fail to respond.

Can Heirs Sell the Home to Pay Off the Reverse?

Yes. Selling the home is the most common solution. The reverse mortgage contract allows the heir to:

  • Sell the home,
  • Use the sale proceeds to pay off the loan,
  • And keep any remaining equity.

Heirs must work with the reverse mortgage servicer and may need to order a new appraisal or provide documentation of the probable selling price.

What If the Heir Can’t Afford to Pay?

If the heir is unable to repay the loan or qualify for new financing, they still have options:

  • Deed in lieu of foreclosure: Sign the property back to the lender to avoid foreclosure.
  • Request an extension: If more time is needed to sell or refinance.
  • Let the lender foreclose: A last resort, especially if the home has negative equity.

This is a good time to speak with a housing counselor. Our article on recovery options after reverse mortgage default explains these solutions further.

Will the Heir Owe Any Additional Money?

No. Because most reverse mortgages are structured as non recourse loans, the heir will never owe more than the home’s market value, even if the reverse mortgage loan balance exceeds it.

If the home sells for less than the debt, FHA insurance covers the difference. Heirs are protected from owing additional money, even if the housing market drops.

This is reinforced in the CFPB’s official rights and responsibilities guide, which clearly states that heirs are not personally liable beyond the value of the home.

What If There’s Still an Existing Mortgage?

Sometimes, a borrower takes out a reverse mortgage loan while an existing mortgage is still in place. The reverse mortgage typically pays off the original loan, but complications can arise if:

  • There are two liens on the home,
  • Or if part of the existing loan remains unpaid.

In this case, heirs must resolve both debts—the reverse mortgage debt and any other outstanding mortgage balance—before selling or refinancing.

Can Heirs Use a New Loan to Keep the Home?

Yes. Heirs can borrow money or obtain financing to repay the loan and keep the property. This usually takes the form of a traditional mortgage or private financing.

The new loan must cover at least 95% of the current appraised value of the home if the reverse mortgage is underwater. This option is common for co borrower heirs or heirs with a strong credit profile and steady income.

What If the Reverse Mortgage Is in Default Before Death?

Sometimes, the reverse mortgage becomes due and payable before the borrower’s death, usually because of property taxes, homeowners insurance, or leaving the primary residence for too long.

If this happens:

  • A due and payable notice is sent,
  • The heir may still take over communication,
  • And the lender may begin foreclosure proceedings if no resolution is reached.

This is an important time to reach out to the reverse mortgage default counseling team at Credit.org for help. Counselors can assist in requesting extensions, explaining loan terms, and preserving the home if possible.

Understanding the Role of the FHA and HUD

Most reverse mortgages are part of the Home Equity Conversion Mortgage (HECM) program, which is insured by the Federal Housing Administration and overseen by HUD (Department of Housing and Urban Development).

These agencies:

  • Set rules for non recourse debt protections,
  • Require servicers to offer extensions,
  • And fund the insurance that protects heirs from excess debt.

The FHA’s involvement ensures that even if the loan balance is greater than the market value, the heir is not stuck paying more than the home is worth. Learn more from HUD’s HECM program page.

Reverse Mortgage FAQs for Heirs

What if the reverse mortgage borrower was not the only person on the loan?

If there was a co borrower or an eligible non-borrowing spouse, they may be allowed to stay in the home even after the borrower passes. This depends on the loan terms and whether the person remaining meets HUD’s criteria. It’s important to know that if the last borrower has died or if the borrower moves out permanently—such as into long-term care—the loan will likely be due and payable.

Do heirs have to pay off the loan in full to keep the home?

Heirs don’t have to pay the full reverse mortgage balance. Thanks to FHA rules, they only need to pay off the loan up to 95% of the market value. This option helps heirs who want to keep a home with a reverse mortgage but can’t afford to cover the full outstanding debt. A lump sum or new loan may be needed to cover this amount.

What happens to mortgage insurance after the borrower dies?

Mortgage insurance is required on all HECM loans. This coverage protects the reverse mortgage heirs by ensuring they’ll never owe more than the home is worth. Even if the loan balance exceeds the home’s principal residence value, the federal housing administration (FHA) steps in to cover the difference.

What options do heirs have if they can’t keep the home?

If heirs don’t want the property, they can let the reverse mortgage lender sell it in a foreclosure sale or sell the property themselves. When property sells, any remaining equity after the loan is repaid goes to the estate. This is especially important if the youngest borrower recently passed away or moved to a care facility.

What are common reverse mortgage problems that heirs should know about?

Some reverse mortgage problems include missing paperwork, short timelines, or poor communication from the reverse mortgage company. Heirs might also face unexpected monthly payments for property taxes, homeowners insurance, or utilities during the process. A good first step is to review the reverse mortgage contract, talk to the property owner’s estate attorney, and request any needed extensions.

Do reverse mortgages require interest payments from heirs?

No. Heirs do not make interest payments during the life of the loan. However, when the borrower passes away, the total monthly payment amount—including interest—is due. The estate or heirs can cover this by selling the home, refinancing, or using savings.

Key Takeaways for Heirs

If you inherit a home with a reverse mortgage:

  • Act quickly when the borrower passes,
  • Communicate clearly with the reverse mortgage lender or servicer,
  • And explore all your options; sell the home, pay off the reverse, or request a deed in lieu.

Remember, you don’t have to go through this alone. Talk to a HUD-certified housing counselor through Credit.org’s reverse mortgage default help.

Article written by
Jeff Michael
Jeff Michael is the author of More Than Money, a debtor education guide for pre-bankruptcy debtor education, and Repair Your Credit and Knock Out Your Debt from McGraw-Hill books. He was a contributor to Tips from The Top: Targeted Advice from America’s Top Money Minds. He lives in Overland Park, Kansas.